We are clinging to the good in our lives, whilst being desperately fearful of losing it. That fear of losing what we love ensures we can’t truly enjoy what we love, and will often eventually result in us losing it.
Category: Humanity
I had a conversation with a client during a coaching call this morning that brought something big up for me, something which has been coming up repeatedly for some time. During the call I’d set him a writing task, and upon reflection I decided to set myself one too. It’s been a while since I
Two or three years ago whilst I was living near Bondi Beach, on some mornings I would get up early before work and go for a jog on the sand, which is roughly a kilometre in length. Every morning I would jog down to the sand in my trainers, take them off and then run
Many, if not most of us, are carrying old emotional wounds, often without knowledge of what it is that we carry. Sometimes these wounds can be decades old, dating back to early childhood, the memories may be vague, or even gone, but the wound remains. It doesn’t need to.
In fifty years I suspect 15 year olds will be in an online classroom being taught about the way of the ‘savages’ back in 1995 and how they used to consume drugs, get royally pissed up on a Friday night and take strangers back to their shared houses to eat kebabs at 3am and fuck like drunken rabbits.
This is all anyone needs to know, and it’s what we all need to know. The seekers will find it when their searching demands it. I did not write it.
Studies over and over again have shown that there are four key attachment styles, and we know that they are largely programmed before a child is eighteen months old. They mean everything.
Just as the natives had no answer for the gun, we, the people of the world have no answer for the digital army that is coming for us. Just as the native people had their lives, land and freedom taken from them, the same is now happening to us.
“I love life, I love me, I love you, HEAR ME ROAR”
The only way I win is by refusing to buy into the notion that I must win in order to win. I’m not saying don’t play, but don’t play their game. Just play your game. This is life.
